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Hey World,

It's me again. I'm here to slip under the cloak of your disdain for my lack of posts over the past few months. haha

Apart from that, I was spending a leisurely day at home just cleaning and reflecting on the universe when I had a thought about friendships and how fragile they can be no matter how strong the relationships are.

When people share a connection with another person they can pour out their hearts, emotions and devotion to the other, sometimes even more than they would to a lover.  As long as it's mutual, it creates an environment of security and comfort. As humans, we long for that connection and belongingness. Many of us find this friendship/ place of solace many times throughout our lives and some of us either grow ripe with or weary of this need depending on the circumstances life throws at us.

This brings me to my train of thought earlier we as people brew the perfect components to be GREAT friends to one another BUT when we add things like vanity, stubbornness, selfishness, insecurity, fear, pride...etc, to the cauldron, it can prove to be a catastrophic concoction. We allow these things to weasel their way into our lives and damage so many great friendships.

I've seen good people be absolutely SHITTY to another person and refuse to even acknowledge their actions. It bothers me to see this because it's this same person that complains about not having loyal people in their life. Its because of their lack of empathy and understanding that they can shatter a seemingly strong and sturdy friendship.

If you as a person seem to loose a lot of friends it may not be because you are bad at picking friends it may be because you're bad at being one.

Until next time!

Song of interest

Bigbang- Let's not fall in love